Becoming Friends with Time

by Joan C Webb on July 23, 2010

To love life is to love time. Time is the stuff life is made of.” This quote from Benjamin Franklin intrigues me. Living in harmony with time. Agreeing not to compete against time. Becoming friends with time. What a relief-filled possibility!Clock moving hands clip art

A colleague surprised me recently when she said, “I’m in the process of changing my philosophy about time and work—and beginning to think that maybe fulfillment and success are not found in keeping my nose to the grindstone every minute. I’ve decided to try to be a bit easier on myself—to take breaks, to pause and talk with fellow workers and to rest when appropriate. However, I admit I feel extremely uncomfortable about this. Am I doing the right thing?”

Perhaps God allows finite human beings (that’s you and me!) to live within the confines of time to protect us from anxiety overload and burnout. Changing our concept of time as a slave driver or tyrant (or wet blanket) to that of a friend may help us become more peaceful and content. Wouldn’t that be a refreshing way to live?

And I am sure that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on that day when Christ Jesus comes back again (Phil. 1:6, NLT).

Lord,
Thanks for the safety of time limitations.
Keep reminding me that no is not a naughty word.
I let go of my need to do everything and serve everyone.
I’m trusting that You’ll finish in me what You’ve started.

I wrote the above message about TIME several years ago (it appears on page 141 of The Relief of Imperfection.) And I journaled about this personal “aha” several years before that. When I read it again today, it felt new. Just another reminder that I’m on an ongoing journey of life as a “recovering” workaholic (or action-addict or  over-doer, whatever you want to call it!)

What about you? How do you feel about TIME?

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A Billion Gigabytes?

by Joan C Webb on July 15, 2010

I’m Not Crazy

Overwork makes for restless sleep. Ecclesiastes 5:3, THE MESSAGE

Am I making too much of culture’s bigger-better-more-faster craze? I didn’t think so, but I wanted verification. “The world is now producing nearly two exabytes of new and unique information per year,” writes Kevin A. Miller, author of Surviving Information Overload. “Don’t feel bad if you don’t know what an exabyte is. No one does. It’s a new term, one they had to coin for a billion gigabytes.” Miller maintains that “there are 260,000 billboards, 11,520 newspapers, 11,556 periodicals, 27,000 video outlets, 40,000 new book titles, and 60,000,000,000 pieces of junk mail every year” for us to choose from, read, compare, manage and heed.1

An emergent group of “information environmentalists” states that their objective is to reclaim mental respite from the constant barrage of cell phones, personal digital assistants, instant messaging, email, specialized cable channels and massive amounts of news, entertainment and sales pitches.2 “It feels to me that as a result of the high speed at which we’re operating . . . we’re kind of numbing ourselves. Just trying to get by,” says Dr. David Levy, professor at University of Washington’s Information School and researcher at a think-tank that created the personal computer and laser printer.3

So I’m not crazy when I get the gut-sickening sensation that I’ll never catch up! I won’t. Nobody can. Thus, begone unnecessary guilt! I’m headed for fewer sleepless nights, trying to figure out how to get it all done.

Lord, I can’t maneuver through this over-the-top mania alone. We’re a team and I’m grateful. That’s enough for me today.

What’s your take on this information? Do you ever feel like you’ll never get it all done?

[Adapted from It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life.] http://tinyurl.com/DevoBook

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Creator-Given Unalienable Rights

July 4, 2010

It’s the 4th of July 2010. This morning while browsing through a magazine, I found and read the first part of our country’s Declaration of Independence. It struck a chord in my mind and heart like never before. I don’t know why this holiday more than others. I lived through a lot of Independence Day [...]

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T.G.I.F.?

June 25, 2010

Is Friday’s Work Done?
It’s Friday! For some of you this means a little respite from your work-week activities. For others, it means a switch to a different kind of work. (Anybody out here have two jobs or go to school on the weekend?) For still others, it is merely another day in [...]

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A Good Friend is Like a Knife Sharpener

June 11, 2010

Relationship Tip from the Proverbs
Have you ever tried to cut a friend’s hair with styling scissors that had dull blades? Or slice through a piece of steak with an unsharpened knife? It’s frustrating and the results are less than satisfying. Yet when you rub the dull blade against a separate piece of iron, it works [...]

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Board the Dog!

June 2, 2010

Life Coaches Don’t Have the Answers

A key to effective Life Coaching is this: Coaching clients (I like to call them coachees or partners) have the answers or they can find the answers. I firmly believe that people have their own answers, solutions and next steps inside them. They may not think they do. In fact, [...]

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How I Started Life Coaching

May 26, 2010

Early one morning as a man walked along the beach, he saw an unusual scene. Thousands of starfish that had washed up on shore were dying in the sun. In the distance he noticed a young woman picking up starfish and throwing them back into the ocean, one at a time. When he came close [...]

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FREE Burnout Questionnaire

May 19, 2010

You Flirting with Action Addiction & Burnout?
Have you dreamed of slowing down, but keep hearing your internal-bully whisper “There’s no stinkin’ way you can do that!”
Perhaps you’re one of many in service-related careers or ministries who are on the fast track to burnout. (Just in case you wondering, here’s a good definition of burnout. [...]

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Mom, Tell Jesus Hi for Me

May 10, 2010

My mother (who I always thought looked like a movie star!) suffered repeated TIAs (transient ischemic attacks, or “mini strokes”)1 and lost her sight, hearing, reasoning and ability to talk. I hated what was happening to her. Then that dreaded call: “She’s dying. Come.” On Mother’s fourth night at the hospital, my daughter, Lynnette, joined [...]

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IMPORTANT: YOU are needed for NEW MOMS book!

May 5, 2010

I’m writing a NEW MOM book and I’d love your input. Your stories and tips can help another NEW MOM.

Thanks to you who already gave me great stories. I have room for more. Need stories by June 1 unless otherwise indicated below. THX!
I know you’re busy. Let’s make this SIMPLE. [...]

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